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Personal Biography I grew up in the 70’s. With the Vietnam War and the
women’s movement as a backdrop, and parents who encouraged
me to explore, I became a seeker of freedom and a believer
in possibilities. Asking “Why?” and “Why
not?” became a way of life.
When it was time for high school I chose a student-run “Free
School” in favor of the public school in our community.
Here I was encouraged to challenge beliefs and fears that
limited my potential.
As a Psychology major in college I continued to wonder, “How
can I express who I am in the world and make a difference?” This
questioning took me deeper into feminism, the self-help movement
and eventually onto a path of emotional and spiritual growth.
A pivotal experience on this journey occurred in my final
year of college. I was curious about midwifery, a practice
then done mostly underground for home births. Before I could
do much research or study, I met a woman who had just completed
her midwife training. She was looking for an apprentice.
I signed up on the spot.
I found myself at the feet of women facing the most challenging
task of their lives - bringing new life into the world. As
a labor coach I witnessed the full range of human emotions,
from unbearable pain to incredible joy. When I began the
apprenticeship I thought midwifery was about being present
for the birth of babies. Over time I learned that there was
much more going on for the mothers and for me. These new
mothers were evolving from one state of being to another.
My balance and fearlessness served as a bridge to help them
make the crossing.
As my life progressed, I got married and had two children.
I set aside my dreams to raise my family. I enjoyed being
a mother yet my passion for causes and freedom tugged at
me. When my marriage ended, I took the opportunity to carve
out a new life. I knew I wanted to help people. I also realized
it wasn’t necessarily being a midwife that fulfilled
me. Instead, it was "midwife-ing" human beings
through life transitions that brought me the greatest fulfillment.
I became a manager for a group of metaphysical stores. In
that position, I found success, both in the business world
and in serving fellow seekers. After eight years in retail
management, I was ready for more intimate, one-on-one relationships
with people.
As if by divine guidance, my path took a new turn. My early
affinity for women’s issues led me to work at a women's
health clinic where I became a women’s health counselor
and educator. I also got the opportunity to facilitate women’s
spirituality circles.
While my work life evolved, a long-term friendship blossomed
into love and subsequently, marriage. With my new partner
I found someone with whom to practice the art of relationship.
We are joyfully committed to walking a path of growth and
beauty together.
My personal evolution continued as a student, and later
as a facilitator, of Transformational Breath and “The
Work” of Byron Katie. Using these modalities I helped
people unblock physical, emotional energy and reprogram limiting
beliefs formed during times of trauma.
I looked at all of the experiences and tools I had accumulated.
How could I use them to promote my commitment to a world
of possibilities?
When I discovered the Life on Purpose Institute and their
Coaches Development Program I instantly knew I'd found the
answer. I discovered that there's actually a profession for
what I do, who I've been all along. That profession is coaching.
The Life on Purpose coaches training provided another set
of tools that enabled me to frame my values – courage,
creative expression, conscious awareness and abundant possibility.
As a coach I had found a way to be of service and fulfill
my passion for living an authentic and compassionate life.
When clients enter a coaching relationship with me I offer
them a simple, yet profound challenge – Be you. You
are already perfect. I encourage people to take a courageous
stand for themselves. They are then free to explore a world
of abundant possibility and creative expression. If the sky’s
the limit, why not dream big? As Marianne Williamson says, “We
ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented,
and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?”
Coaching is a lot like midwifery. Now, instead of helping
bring babies into the world, I support people who are ready
to transform possibilities into reality. Like birthing a
child, this can be gut wrenching and disillusioning work.
As a coach, I guide clients through the emotions and resistance
that prevent them from seeing and expressing their inherent
perfection.
I call my coaching practice Path of Purpose. The most important
work we do is finding who we are and our unique path. My
purpose is most fully alive when clients discover that a
new life is growing within them and decide, “I am ready
to walk my path.”
Are you ready to improve your business, launch a business
or create more balance in your life? Do you need support
and guidance to make the necessary changes so that you can
wake up each morning feeling more excited about your life
and work? Can you imagine opening up your life, finding and
trusting your true self? Come, let’s walk the Path
of Purpose together. The journey is incredible!
Warmly and joyfully,
Helaine
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